February 2012
0 posts
Anonymous asked: continued (texting)... He's always the one to text me - I'm never the one to text him first. I don't want to piss off my friend, or my boyfriend for that matter. He's a cool guy and I like to chat with him from time to time, just as friends, but I'm starting to feel a bit uncomfortable about it. I know he cares a lot about my friend and that he wouldn't cheat on her...
Anonymous asked: Okay, so, I'm not sure where to start but I guess I'll just jump right into it. Recently, my friend's boyfriend started texting me again. We used to text from time to time around this time last year (before he and my friend were dating) but always just as friends because I have been with my boyfriend the whole time. He started dating my friend in the summer and we talked a bit in...
December 2011
1 post
Sorry!
I haven’t been on in a while but I want to let people know that if they still have questions and need help with anything at all, they can still feel free to ask!
November 2011
2 posts
Anonymous asked: Hey, so i've messed up an un-countable amount of times with my love-life. And i never ever mean to.. Everytime i mess up and my girl says she doesn't know how she feels anymore, i burst into tears. And i tell myself i'll change, a couple of times. And i haven't changed.. help me. I need to change or i'm going to lose her. She's my everything and i feel so unconfident...
Anonymous asked: My best friend is having a hard time because we are in a group of friends which is 12 of us and we are really close, but there was this fight and everyone is drifting apart I want to make her feel better but Im not an advice guru and sometimes I just don't know what to say anymore, she's my closest friend and I just don't know what more to say, I say what I can say but sometimes Im...
August 2011
2 posts
Anonymous asked: Hiii, Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and recently, his friends started being annoying. On facebook they'll constantly write "Get it in." to him or "Get some." and frankly it's just been pissing me off. We don't show PDA on facebook. They'll just write it on comments on statuses and what not. I've been feeling really insecure....
Anonymous asked: Hey Mike. I need to ask you some advice, even though it's probably stupid and not important. I just, I don't know. You see, my boyfriend goes off to camp for the last week of the summer every year. I know he loves it and he loves the people there and he looks forward to going every year. And this is the part where it gets stupid. His mom just sent me a message on Facebook with his camp...
July 2011
11 posts
Anonymous asked: Hey Mike I need some advice! I have been hanging out with this guy who keeps telling me he wants to have sex with me. I am a virgin (mainly because I am extremely self conscious) I don't really want to lose my virginity to just anyone but I am thinking about him and it all the time now and the fact that I'm 24 and just want to get it over with. Just wondering if you think this is a good...
Anonymous asked: thank you it did help. and we talked things out like the day after we broke up but like he just seemed really unsure of the break up but at the same time unsure of getting back together. I dont think he wants to get back together cauz my friend told me he didnt like anyone anymore but i feel like he's lying about it. He's really confusing but he acts like he cares because he says he...
Anonymous asked: hi. So my boyfriend and I broke up like couple weeks ago. we were going out for a little over 7 months. When he broke up with me he said he still loved me but he thought we should be just friends. He said that he was breaking up with me because he didnt want me to be sad or to cry because of him. And he didnt want to hurt me anymore. And if we were just friends he could help me but not hurt me...
Anonymous asked: hi mike!! so i wanted to ask you something. i'm a bit obsessed by sex but i'm a virgin. i want to have sex but i don't have a boyfriend and want to be virgin till i'll get married. does this make sense?
Anonymous asked: hey mike. ok, so i just read your girlfriend's blog that we should check out your blog because your really good at advising. so i started reading out some of the questions and i was likke "oh my gosh!!, this guy is awesome". so yeah, you get the picture. you and your girlfriend are to blessed to be with each other. so keep it up make others feel that they are not alone and whenever...
Anonymous asked: I am 16 and I still believe on waiting to get married to have sex. Will I ever find a guy that believes in the same thing?
Anonymous asked: i've been with my bf for almost a year and a half ... but i have feelings for my 'bestfriend' , who is a guy. I'm so inlove with my bestfriend and have fallen out of love with my bf. How can i break up with my bf wihout hurting him ? And you should know that my bestfriend and my bf are really close too ... :/
Anonymous asked: Hi I noticed that you were around 18 19 years old so you can probably relate to what I am about to say. I'm 16 years old and I have just gotten my first job. I despise it. It is terrible but I am probably exaggerating because I have only worked there for 3 days. Everyone there has worked there for a long time so I feel like an idiot when I ask a million questions at a time. It seems as if I...
Anonymous asked: Dear Mike,
My parents, sister and cousin always tell me that they don't like my boyfriend because he's a bit overweight. I think he's perfect but they keep telling me how I could do better...I think he's perfect. He's so sweet to me and he brings me flowers and I just love him. He's working at it though and he's lost a couple pounds...he plays football....
My parents, sister and cousin always tell me that they don't like my boyfriend because he's a bit overweight. I think he's perfect but they keep telling me how I could do better...I think he's perfect. He's so sweet to me and he brings me flowers and I just love him. He's working at it though and he's lost a couple pounds...he plays football....
Anonymous asked: Hi Mikee.
I have a question.
I think having sex is absolutely disgusting.
I never ever want to have it. I think it's so gross. Is that weird? Is something wrong with me?
I have a question.
I think having sex is absolutely disgusting.
I never ever want to have it. I think it's so gross. Is that weird? Is something wrong with me?
Anonymous asked: Is it weird that I don't want to grind with my boyfriend? I think that's disgusting...I like dancing classy.
June 2011
5 posts
ina-ballerinaa-deactivated20121 asked: I really enjoy your blog ! It's helped me soo much to get a male perspective on things ! My boyfriend is totallyyy unspeakable when he's upset so it really helps that you answer allllll types of questions ! How long have you been going out with your girlfriend? :)
Anonymous asked: So a couple months ago my boyfriend said that he masterbates about me? Should I be freaked out?
Anonymous asked: Hello,
I'm 15 and recently broke up with my ex/first boyfriend. We haven' spoken in a month now and im really starting to miss him. I'm not sure if he still has feelings for me, and a while aftr he dumped me he said he didn't want to be with me, though before that he said he really wants to and all. A friend of mine said I should talk to him soon before it's too...
I'm 15 and recently broke up with my ex/first boyfriend. We haven' spoken in a month now and im really starting to miss him. I'm not sure if he still has feelings for me, and a while aftr he dumped me he said he didn't want to be with me, though before that he said he really wants to and all. A friend of mine said I should talk to him soon before it's too...
Anonymous asked: Okay. So there's this guy...but isn't there always? ANYYWAY my "boyfriend" is really starting to get on my nerves. He gets jealous over everything and he even made me cry on my BIRTHDAY. He acts like a dick all the time and I've been getting so mad at him. I don't know what I should do because I still love him even though he can get really annoying at times. He's...
Anonymous asked: So my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time last night. Everything was gret! But half way through he wasn't fully hard anymore. Is this normal? (It lasted for an hour)
Anonymous asked: Hi Mike!
so i have this friend, we used to be close..we're not that close anymore but we still spend a lot of time together. however, the school year is nearing an end and honestly i feel like if it weren't for the fact that i see her in school, she wouldn't bother talking to me at all. also, for the past week or so she's been really rude and she talks to me with...
so i have this friend, we used to be close..we're not that close anymore but we still spend a lot of time together. however, the school year is nearing an end and honestly i feel like if it weren't for the fact that i see her in school, she wouldn't bother talking to me at all. also, for the past week or so she's been really rude and she talks to me with...
May 2011
55 posts
Anonymous asked: How should I explain to my boyfriend politely to stop messing with my boobs?
Anonymous asked: Hello :D
I have a few questions I just need an opinion on. How do I tell my boyfriend I'd like to actually spend TIME with him when I'm at his house instead of just sucking face the whole time? Also, my mom's really protective I guess of me whenever I go over to his house, and only lets me be over there for a few hours at a time if his parents aren't home. My boyfriend...
I have a few questions I just need an opinion on. How do I tell my boyfriend I'd like to actually spend TIME with him when I'm at his house instead of just sucking face the whole time? Also, my mom's really protective I guess of me whenever I go over to his house, and only lets me be over there for a few hours at a time if his parents aren't home. My boyfriend...
Anonymous asked: hey, this may sound pretty lame or stupid but im in a situation when Ive been invited to 2 parties on the same day and i dont know which one to go to. Im good friends with one of them and the other im just a nice person to them and a friend and both the invites was private so it wasnt an open invite for everyone. I don't know if i should go half/half with the parties or just go to one because...
Anonymous asked: I've been dating my best friend for over two years now. We're both 20 which I know is young to start planning everything but we have plans to get married but not for at least another 4 years. I love him. I don't know how else to say it but I do.
Lately I've been feeling like I might be missing out on life because so many of my friends are just flopping around hooking up...
Lately I've been feeling like I might be missing out on life because so many of my friends are just flopping around hooking up...
Anonymous asked: My breasts are tender, and my boyfriend wants to touch. What should I do? Should I show him? I'm embarrassed to tell him because they're red and puffy. Should I see a doctor? Should I bring him with me?
loveislouderrx3 asked: hiii, i wrote to you on april 20 about the guy friend that i liked and you said its possible that he likes me back. and i didnt tell him i liked him but i feel like i should have.. but i dont think he ever liked me. he told me yesterday that he was in love with another girll.. this was kinda pointless but you told me to let you know how it went. and thanks for the adivce though :)
Anonymous asked: I'm in love with my best friend. We've been best friends for years and we dated for a few months but he easily gets so absorbed in his work and trying to please others that he forgot about me and our relationship suffered and I broke up with him. I can't imagine my life without him, i've told him so much but now i'm having a hard time trusting him and I rarely see him. It...
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Anonymous asked: Sorry if this is long, but I'll try to cut it down. So about 2 weeks ago, my boyfriend broke up with me after a 10 month relationship. Reason being was because of stupid arguments over the internet and rarely in person. We got along so well besides them. We're both 15. After it happened, I kept begging which I know I shouldn't have done, and he wanted to think about it, so he did...
Anonymous asked: you seem like a good guy to give advice to :) thanks for helping all of your followers! its very nice of you :D
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Anonymous asked: Hi :)
So I have this friend. I guess she's one of my best friends. We've been friends for almost five years now and just two years ago I switched schools 'cause there was a program I wanted to get into. Anyway, since then we've been keeping in touch. We started off by speaking to each other every week or so, but school got in the way and we both got really busy....
So I have this friend. I guess she's one of my best friends. We've been friends for almost five years now and just two years ago I switched schools 'cause there was a program I wanted to get into. Anyway, since then we've been keeping in touch. We started off by speaking to each other every week or so, but school got in the way and we both got really busy....
Anonymous asked: hi mike! i need some advice and from what i've read, you give really good advice, so i'm hoping you can help me.
there's this guy that i'm absolutely crazy about. we started talking a little over a month ago and he straight up told me that he wasn't looking for a relationship, especially since i'm moving so far a way in like, 3 weeks. i told him that i...
there's this guy that i'm absolutely crazy about. we started talking a little over a month ago and he straight up told me that he wasn't looking for a relationship, especially since i'm moving so far a way in like, 3 weeks. i told him that i...
Anonymous asked: how do you get over a guy that broke your heart? :(
Anonymous asked: how would you know if a guy considers you as one of his best friends?
Anonymous asked: My boyfriend and I have been dating for only a few months but we have been best friends for years; he lives down my street and we used to hang out every weekend. About three weeks into our relationship he stopped asking me to come over, and he slowly stopped trying to see me in-person. He stopped calling and he rarely texts me now. I have confronted him multiple times about this and he says that...
Anonymous asked: Hi. :]
So, my best guy friend came over the other day. I have had feelings for him on and off for the past couple of years, but I never thought he reciprocated. I always thought he just wanted to be friends.
We were lying in my bed, just talking. Out of nowhere he starts talking abot how he would be a horrible boyfriend. He said he's too selfish to be in a...
So, my best guy friend came over the other day. I have had feelings for him on and off for the past couple of years, but I never thought he reciprocated. I always thought he just wanted to be friends.
We were lying in my bed, just talking. Out of nowhere he starts talking abot how he would be a horrible boyfriend. He said he's too selfish to be in a...
Anonymous asked: okay this is going to be long but whatever. so my problem is about this guy. so i met this guy in august and he would talk to me alot, well i eventually found out he liked me but at the time i didnt like him, but i was like i should just be nice and stuff and i eventually devolped feelings for him but he didnt know i guess and he just tried really hard for me which made me feel extra special, the...
Anonymous asked: Hiiii; i think it's so nice that you're doing this to help people :)
Okay, so, my best guy friend found out I was cutting myself. And when he found he looked so mad and said 'we'll talk about this later' and we did. I asked him if he hated me or if he was mad. He said he didn't but that he was upset. And I said I was sorry and he said okay then, it is your life...
Okay, so, my best guy friend found out I was cutting myself. And when he found he looked so mad and said 'we'll talk about this later' and we did. I asked him if he hated me or if he was mad. He said he didn't but that he was upset. And I said I was sorry and he said okay then, it is your life...
Anonymous asked: hey its the girl who doesnt do "boyfriends". Whose boyfriend is going off to college and all that jazz. well I broke up with him today. i felt like it was the best for both of us
thisislifeusmc asked: Thank you so so much, with the advice on my husband and me, after two years of this there is only so much a girl can take. I love him, and wish he would change. But he has to change himself. No matter how hard I have tried. I finally told him last night I was on the end of my rope. So now it is all up to him on what to do. I have been recommended fireproof by a few people. I guess it is time to...
Anonymous asked: Hi, I am the one with the question about my husband, he is the once with wandering eyes, and very unromantic. I have tried it all, I have sat him down, I have poured my heart out to him countless times. I have done it all. I always hear the same thing. I promise things will change. It has been two years now and nothing has changed. and another thing is, He can joke around with me, and his friends...
Anonymous asked: I love my Husband to death, and I couldn't imagine life without him. But we fight nonstop. Even about the little things. Idk what the deal is, but I just get so irritated with him. I have asked him so many times to do things, but he never does. He is never romantic, and I am a big time Romantic. I leave him love notes, and he never says anything about them, and when I ask about them he makes...
Anonymous asked: Hi, okay, so i'm finally going out with this guy i'd liked for about 8months before he told me he liked me. i like him loads and he's soooo sweet and kind and is always putting me and my feelings first, and before we were a couple we were close friends. The whole time we were friends all i wanted to do was kiss him, everytime without fail. But now when we are kissing it doesn't...
Anonymous asked: hey, mike! I've recently dropped out from Johnson & Wales University and I was almost done getting my associate's degree in baking and pastry arts. it was a great and also very difficult program and even though I loved it, I just felt depressed. I don't know why I felt that way and it bothers me. I think it's because I'm not sure of what I want to do in the future...
Anonymous asked: What do you think about exes getting back together? Do you think it's a recipe for disaster or that sometimes second chances can work?
